Check your character page (H-Key) to see if you have any Memory Points. You get one memory point each time you level up. In meditation, when you click on one of the spots on a stone tree (E-Key) you can see a description of what it can give you. Then if you want it and have a memory point to spend, you click with LMB to select it. You have to start at the bottom of a tree and after you select the lowest one, you then have the option to select the next higher one if you have more memory points. Are you just starting? There are 3 trees each with 3 branches, and you start by choosing one of the 3 at the lowest point (where they split into 3).