found a work around, not really a fix, I used no clip (TCL) to run to the end of the area and open the door, apparently the whole hallway and room after the bed with the brittle bow, is just a super crash zone for me, either way i've gotten past it and if anyone else has problems, open the console commands with ~ and type TCL, you'll be able to fly through the walls, execute this command before you get to the area with the bedroll and the water, run outside of the map and navigate as best you can to the left slightly and run to the door labeled 'abandoned temple' and spam the use button, it took me a few tries to get it right and maybe this problem is specific to my pc but either way make sure you turn off TCL after you enter the next area.