SureAI

So I hit 10 perks each that were not talents in infiltrator and the bow one.

I did not get a message but I knew it was a skill boost.

I am not seeing the skill boost. still just plus one from knowledgee.

I am sure this is somehow my fault

In advance, if anyone reads this, thanks.
if you answer, you are part of why gaming is good!

(ps. anyplace that crunches the numbers on what each skill boost does (like is it .5% per skill point for marksman/archery skill points)

I got notification (I don't remember if it was in the upper-left corner or in a dialog box) when I got an affinity.

Also check Magic window -> Active effects.

When you say the bow one, I assume you mean "trickster." There is no affinity for the combination of infiltrator and trickster. You can see the list of possible affinities in the wiki.

I guess I was just not high enough yet on possible affinity.

I now have arcane archer. sweeeeet.