OK, I'll answer you honestly, though I should add, that I have no obligation to do so, since, let's be honest yourself too, your question is pretty over the top and should not be asked in the forums. If you wanted an answer, you could have asked privately through a PM. But since the discussion is already going on here I'll answer here as well.
Why didn't I like the original female Kim? Because I had the feeling, as if the male Kim was made first and then just made a copy and switched to female. And to me she looks like she has a beard, which is something nor I neither my husband prefer at females. I tried to make my own version darker skinned, looking like she has a nice bronze taint from all the time she has spend on the sun, but the Aeterna race base face texture really isn't made for that and she looked pretty fake and unnatural. That's why the skin is the color it is. I made her so, that my husband would like her. If he asked for blue, green or purple skin I'd have made her like that. Why does she have blue eyes? I thought it fit to the hair and face. My own preference is brown, if you really want to know that. Did I answer all your questions?
By the way, I really like drows. Maybe I should make a drow race based Aeterna replacer?